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Every parent is worried about having their son circumcised. Like a two edge sword- Brit Milah is a great joy, and a great worry. Traditionally Brit Milah is carried out on the eight day after birth- i.e. the next time the same day of the week comes round, even if the eighth day were to fall on a Sabbath or Festival, though traditionally the Mohel might need to make preparations the day before. If the circumcision has to be delayed, for medical reasons, then it will not take place on a Sabbath or Festival.

Delay may be because the baby is unwell, of low birth weight, or because the nearest Mohel cannot physically get there in time!

Contact the mohel as soon as possible, we are always pleased to help with matters both religious or medical, or know where you can find you some help. It is easier to talk to someone than worry. All of us are practising doctors and meet a large range of people, Jewish, non-Jewish, black, white, and those in between!

Most religious circumcisions will be performed in the family home, though synagogues and hospital rooms are sometimes used. Some have a large event, some have only the 'Sandek' (the Godparent, who will hold the baby for the circumcision, as later in life he/or she will help and guide the child) present. Men ,women, and children are welcome, as they wish, as long as there is some elbow room for the mohel to work!

When you contact the mohel, have a pen and paper to hand. The mohel will explain about the medical aspects of circumcision, consent for the operation, what is needed on the day in terms of equipment, the religious requirements, pain-relief, and any expenses,costs or donations to good causes. Most mohalim would like your Rabbi to be present, if possible.

The minimum requirements are:

1. Agreement on the Jewish name for your son!
2. A warm, clean, well illuminated room.
3. Two, upright, wooden chairs with no arms, best placed near to the good light.
4. One small, coffee type table for medical instruments
5. One Sandek, or equivalent.
6. At least one parent to join in the service.
7. Candles (lighted) and kosher red wine.
8. Most mohalim carry some service texts, though you should ensure there are enough for the size of gathering.
9. Any medical supplies e.g. cotton wool, as discussed with the mohel.
10. You need to ensure that any guests are punctual, as a hungry baby is a cross baby

When a Brit Milah is being performed, there will be blessings to be read, before the operation, and further blessings and a brief Naming Ceremony after it. The service is in the Prayer Book. You can say prayers in as much Hebrew or English as you wish for this traditional occasion. If you are not having a Brit (Covenant Blessing), then the medical procedure (Milah) is just as mentioned.

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